BDSM Exchange 2023

Hello kind anonymous writer or artist!

Treats are always welcome! I'm not picky. My general likes are only suggestions of tropes that I seek out often. As long as it doesn't violate my DNWs and I get to see my ship together, I want to see it. I have ship-specific thoughts and prompts below, but they're only ideas and ramblings.

General Likes:
This is a general list of things that I normally enjoy. It is by no means all-inclusive and you're welcome to deviate as long as it doesn't involve my DNWs.

• AUs (modern, university, coffee shop, soulmate, human, no magic, etc)
• Fake dating
• Only one bed
• Marriage of convenience
• Woke up married
• Enemies to lovers
• Friends to lovers
• Roommates to lovers
• Pining
• Angry love confessions or any kind of love confession really
• Everyone thinks they're already dating but they're totally oblivious
• Sexuality awakening
• Domesticity
• Possessive behavior (consensual, not stalking)
• Hurt/comfort
• Forced proximity
• Hanahaki as long as there's a positive resolution
• Characters that become entirely unhinged when their loved ones are in danger

Smut Likes

• Smut with feelings
• Bondage, especially shibari
• Orgasm denial
• Body worship
• Praise kink
• Switching (I very rarely adhere to strict top/bottom dynamics in shipping) 
• BDSM (as long as it isn't included on my DNW list) 
• Blindfolds
• Consensual non-consent (roleplay) and dubcon (sex pollen, fuck or die, pon farr)
• Dirty talk
• Coming untouched
• Size kink
• Loss of virginity
• Cock warming
• Come marking

General DNW:
Non-con or sexual harassment of any kind (CNC and dubious consent, as stated in likes, are fine) 
Major character death, especially within the requested pairing
Terminal illness or cognitive degradation
A/B/O, pregnancy, or abortion
Any ending other than HEA or HFN for requested ships
"Gender-swapping" (trans headcanons are okay)
Harm of animals or children
First or second POV
Third-party POV, unless voyeurism is a purpose of the fic
Bisexual erasure ("Gay for You" tropes, jumping right to gay/lesbian labels even though character has canonical opposite sex relationships)
Homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, ableism, acephobia
Self-harm or eating disorders
Excessive use of epithets (the blond, the brunette, the younger brother, etc) 
Slut-shaming outside of a consensual sexual situation
Use of AI generation of any kind
Bestiality and/or sex with shifter characters while shifted

Smut DNW: 
Non-sexual bodily fluids in a sexual context (i.e. no watersports, scat, vomiting, etc)
BDSM that isn't safe, sane, and consensual (under-negotiated is fine, as is safe word use)
Gags or gimp masks (improvised gags like a tie pushed into someone's mouth are okay)
Anal sex without prep and lube
Explicit sexual content with characters under 16 (aging them up is fine)

 

FANDOM SPECIFIC

 

 

The Untamed - Lan Wangji/Wei Wuxian
I'll have finished the show by the time sign-ups close and I'm reading the danmei so I am in VERY DEEP for these two. I'm enthusiastic about any dynamic--Dom Wangji, Dom Wuxian, or switching. I'd love: Wei Wuxian as a bratty sub. Lan Wangji subbing with a huge obedience kink. Shibari. Bondage with Lan Wangji's forehead ribbon. The forehead ribbon being used as an improvised cock ring or in sensation play. Wei Wuxian gagged by the silence spell or, conversely, not gagged at all but Lan Wangji trying to see how hard he can push him before he's beyond words. Wei Wuxian pushing Lan Wangji beyond his inhibitions to see how loud he can get. Lan Wangji challenging Wei Wuxian to play Chenqing while he fucks him or the reverse with Lan Wangji's guqin.

The Untamed - Song Lan/Xiao Xingchen/Xue Yang
My hyperfixation at the time of writing this. I wasn't really into it until Xue Yang was thinking about how he'd always wanted to eat candy every day after Xiao Xingchen's death and I shouted, "ARE THEY SAYING XIAO XINGCHEN IS THE CANDY?" I very much want Xue Yang to be subbing because he's a very bratty sub who needs to be taken down. Feel free to embrace the more violent aspects of their relationship (within reason). Weapons play and bloodplay are both fair game. I'd also enjoy a softer side, Xiao Xingchen taking care of Xue Yang and giving him the gentle treatment that he's literally never experienced in his life. Song Lan can watch Xiao Xingchen and Xue Yang or he can be an active participant.

Chainsaw Man - Angel/Aki
Angel and Aki deserve the world. I'm open to interpretations where Angel can't touch Aki (or, if he does, he has to wear gloves/touch over clothing only) or interpretations where Angel's curse isn't an issue and they can touch all they want.

Our Flag Means Death - Stede/Ed
Go wild with any of the freeforms. I'm open to canon divergence, post-season one, or complete AU ideas. I'm game for dom Stede, dom Ed, or switching.

CR Summer Wildflowers Letter

Hello fellow Critter!

Treats are always welcome! I'm not picky. My general likes are only suggestions of tropes that I seek out often. As long as it doesn't violate my DNWs and I get to see my ship together, I want to see it. I have ship-specific thoughts and prompts below, but they're only ideas and ramblings.

General Likes:
This is a general list of things that I normally enjoy. It is by no means all-inclusive and you're welcome to deviate as long as it doesn't involve my DNWs.

• AUs (modern, university, coffee shop, soulmate, human, no magic, etc)
• Fake dating
• Only one bed
• Marriage of convenience
• Woke up married
• Enemies to lovers
• Friends to lovers
• Roommates to lovers
• Pining
• Angry love confessions or any kind of love confession really
• Everyone thinks they're already dating but they're totally oblivious
• Sexuality awakening
• Domesticity
• Possessive behavior (consensual, not stalking)
• Hurt/comfort
• Forced proximity
• Hanahaki as long as there's a positive resolution
• Characters that become entirely unhinged when their loved ones are in danger

Smut Likes

• Smut with feelings
• Bondage, especially shibari
• Orgasm denial
• Body worship
• Praise kink
• Switching (I very rarely adhere to strict top/bottom dynamics in shipping) 
• BDSM (as long as it isn't included on my DNW list) 
• Blindfolds
• Consensual non-consent (roleplay) and dubcon (sex pollen, fuck or die, pon farr)
• Dirty talk
• Coming untouched
• Size kink
• Loss of virginity
• Cock warming
• Come marking

General DNW:
Non-con or sexual harassment of any kind (CNC and dubious consent, as stated in likes, are fine) 
Major character death, especially within the requested pairing
Terminal illness or cognitive degradation
A/B/O, pregnancy, or abortion
Any ending other than HEA or HFN for requested ships
"Gender-swapping" (trans headcanons are okay)
Harm of animals or children
First or second POV
Third-party POV, unless voyeurism is a purpose of the fic
Bisexual erasure ("Gay for You" tropes, jumping right to gay/lesbian labels even though character has canonical opposite sex relationships)
Slurs, identity-based bullying (making fun of someone for being gay or Black), using feminization or "girl" as an insult or humiliation tactic
Self-harm or eating disorders
Slut-shaming outside of a consensual sexual situation
Bestiality and/or sex with shifter characters while shifted
Use of AI generation of any kind

Smut DNW: 
Non-sexual bodily fluids in a sexual context (i.e. no watersports, scat, vomiting, etc)
BDSM that isn't safe, sane, and consensual (under-negotiated is fine, as is safe word use)
Gags or gimp masks (improvised gags like a tie pushed into someone's mouth are okay)
Anal sex without prep and lube
Explicit sexual content with characters under 16 (aging them up is fine)

Fandom Specific DNW: 
FCG with an actual tongue. It's not canon, Sam, please stop.

 

PAIRING SPECIFIC

Delilah Briarwood/Sylas Briarwood/Vax'ildan
I've been obsessed with this concept for literally years. I just want to see Vax get fucked by Delilah and her vampire husband, as a treat. Weapons kink and use of magic is encouraged. I just want Vax to have a good time.

Avantika/Fjord
I'm not really looking for anything long-term for these two, unless it's canon divergence where Fjord didn't meet the Mighty Nein (perhaps if Avantika picked up Fjord after the wreck?) I'd just like to see more of this dynamic without Fjord sacrificing his relationship with the Mighty Nein.

Leylas Kryn/Quana Kryn
I feel bad for this one because I don't have anything to say other than "POWERFUL LESBIANS YAS." I want more of them. I'm fine with concepts that deal with the politics of the Kryn dynasty or soft domestic moments or how they found each other again.

Yussa Errenis & Essek Thelyss & Caleb Widogast
More genius wizards being genius wizards together. That's it, that's my thoughts. I would watch them working on spells together for literal hours.

Orym & Yasha
I would love to see Orym and Yasha meet and just...talk. I think they'd have a lot to say to each other about their burgeoning relationships with the gods (Orym with Melora, Yasha with the Storm Lord), losing your other half to violence, and finding someone new. If you're so inclined, Yasha helping Orym to realize his feelings for Dorian through talking about her relationship with Beau would break my heart in the best way.

Jarett Howarth/Kynan Leore
I've had this idea in my head for a long time. They live rent-free in my head. It could be a slow burn starting from Kynan's arrival in Whitestone and Jarett taking him under his wing. It could be a "getting together" when Kynan has started to settle into his new home and take on additional responsibility.

Taryon Darrington/Shaun Gilmore
I'm really curious what this would be like. They're both so over-the-top that I feel like any romantic gestures would be wild and they could both bond over being in love with a member of the Mighty Nein who probably will never love them back.

Ashton Greymoore/Milo Krook
When we first met Milo, I was CONVINCED that there was going to be a big reveal that they're Ashton's SO and while obviously that's not canon, I'm still not over it. I'm open to any level of canon compliance (that is, canon compliant snapshots of their relationship pre- or during Bells Hells, canon divergence, or entire AUs). Ashton deserves nice things and Milo is nice things.

Fresh Cut Grass/FRIDA
ROBOTS IN LOVE. Soft moments during their time traveling together. Canon divergence where they meet in Aeor in the past. Canon divergence where they both wake up in Aeor in the present. More dream sharing.

Orym/Dorian Storm/Will
Orym deserves to have everything he's ever wanted and, by that, I mean Dorian and Will. I'm open to Will not dying in the attack on Zephrah or resurrection explanations or just full on AUs where he isn't dead. I'm good with just about any relationship configuration. It's fine if Dorian and Will are in relationships with Orym but not each other, as long as there's no animosity, or for all three of them to be in a triad.

Orym/Will
The scene where Orym died and saw Will again destroyed me. I want it all. I want the story of how they met and fell in love. I want AUs and canon divergence where Will doesn't die. I want the two of them to be endlessly happy.